Using Self-Talk to Improve Performance
When the pressure is on, what you say to yourself matters.
Whether it's standing on the start line, preparing for a penalty, or trying to recover after a mistake, athletes are constantly engaged in an internal dialogue. This “self-talk” can either sharpen focus and boost confidence or undermine performance entirely.
In this blog, we'll explore what self-talk is, why it works, and how athletes can use it deliberately to improve performance.
What Is Self-Talk?
Self-talk refers to the internal dialogue we have with ourselves, both conscious and automatic. In sport, this can include:
- Instructional cues (“Keep your head still”)
- Motivational statements (“You've got this”)
- Evaluative thoughts (“That was terrible”)
Researchers define self-talk as “a syntactically recognisable internal dialogue in which the sender of the message is also the receiver” (Hardy, 2006). In other words, it's how you communicate with yourself in moments that matter.
Importantly, self-talk is not just something elite athletes use, it happens to everyone. The key difference is whether it is intentional and helpful, or automatic and harmful.
Why Self-Talk Matters for Performance
A large body of sport psychology research shows that self-talk can significantly influence performance outcomes.
A meta-analysis by Hatzigeorgiadis et al. (2011) found that self-talk interventions had a moderate to strong positive effect on performance, particularly when the type of self-talk matched the task demands.
Self-talk influences performance through several mechanisms:
Attention and Focus
Instructional self-talk helps direct attention to relevant cues. For example, a golfer focusing on “smooth tempo” is less likely to become distracted by crowd noise or pressure.
Confidence and Belief
Motivational self-talk can enhance self-efficacy, the belief in one's ability to succeed (Bandura, 1997). Statements like “I've done this before” reinforce competence under pressure.
Emotional Regulation
Self-talk can help manage anxiety and stress. Reframing thoughts (“This is excitement, not nerves”) can reduce the negative impact of pressure (Jones, 2003).
Effort and Persistence
Encouraging self-talk supports persistence during fatigue or adversity, particularly in endurance sports (Blanchfield et al., 2014).
Types of Self-Talk: Getting the Balance Right
Not all self-talk is created equal. Broadly, it falls into two main categories:
Instructional Self-Talk
- Focuses on technique or execution
- Most effective for precision and skill-based tasks
- Example: “Elbow high”, “Follow through”
Motivational Self-Talk
- Builds confidence, effort, and resilience
- Useful in high-intensity or physically demanding situations
- Example: “Stay strong”, “Keep pushing”
Research suggests that instructional self-talk is more effective for fine motor skills, while motivational self-talk benefits strength and endurance tasks (Hatzigeorgiadis et al., 2009).
The Problem with Negative Self-Talk
Negative self-talk is common, especially in competitive environments. Thoughts like:
“Don't mess this up”
“I always choke under pressure”
“I'm not good enough”
These patterns can become automatic and self-reinforcing.
From a cognitive perspective, this is linked to cognitive distortions, inaccurate thinking patterns that negatively affect performance (Beck, 1976). Over time, they can erode confidence, increase anxiety, and narrow attentional focus in unhelpful ways.
However, it's important to note: the goal is not to eliminate all negative thoughts. That's unrealistic.
Instead, the aim is to change your relationship with those thoughts and replace unhelpful patterns with more constructive alternatives.
How to Use Self-Talk Effectively
Increase Awareness
You can't change what you don't notice.
Start by reflecting on your internal dialogue during training and competition:
What do you say after mistakes?
What runs through your mind under pressure?
Is your self-talk helping or hindering?
Keeping a simple journal can help identify patterns.
Challenge and Reframe
Once you notice negative self-talk, question it:
Is this thought accurate?
Is it helpful?
What would I say to a teammate in this situation?
Replace unhelpful thoughts with balanced, constructive alternatives:
“I always mess this up” → “I've struggled before, but I can adjust”
“Don't miss” → “Aim for the target”
This approach is grounded in cognitive behavioural principles, which have strong empirical support in sport psychology (Turner & Barker, 2014).
Develop Personalised Cue Words
Short, simple phrases are most effective under pressure.
Examples:
“Relax”
“Explode”
“Smooth”
“Next point”
These cues should be:
- Meaningful to you
- Linked to specific actions or mindsets
- Practised consistently in training
Over time, they become automatic triggers for optimal performance states.
Practice Under Pressure
Self-talk is a skill and like any skill, it needs practice.
Integrate it into training:
- Use cue words during drills
- Simulate pressure scenarios
- Pair self-talk with pre-performance routines
Research shows that self-talk interventions are most effective when practised systematically, rather than used only in competition (Tod et al., 2011).
Keep It Realistic, Not Just Positive
There's a common misconception that self-talk should always be positive.
But overly optimistic statements (“I'm unbeatable”) can backfire if they don't feel believable.
Instead, aim for credible and constructive self-talk:
“Stay focused on this play”
“You've prepared for this”
“One step at a time”
This builds genuine confidence rather than fragile reassurance.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Self-talk is one of the most accessible and powerful mental tools available to athletes.
Used effectively, it can improve focus, build confidence, regulate emotions, and enhance performance under pressure. But like any mental skill, it requires awareness, structure, and consistent practice.
The athletes who benefit most from self-talk aren't those who never doubt themselves, they're the ones who know how to respond when doubt appears.
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Further reading:
Self-Talk and Sports Performance: A Meta-Analysis
Self-Talk: Chats that Athletes Have With Themselves


